By Yassira Huarcaya
Throughout our journey at Tinkuy, the way we walk alongside families has continued to grow and evolve. We’ve been searching for a formula that truly works, even if it isn’t perfect.
We don’t just share information about the proposal and the bibliography that slowly enriches their path; we also hold spaces where families feel genuinely heard: opportunities to bring their questions, and others where we step aside so more experienced Mapaches can offer their support. Each of these moments has its own unique value, offering warmth and attentive listening to every Mapache who wants to keep moving forward on their journey.
Tinkuy isn’t always easy to understand at first. It sparks many questions and doubts. But we see this as one of its treasures. Tinkuy doesn’t just guide and inspire young heroes on their journey, it also supports Mapaches (their parents) who are willing to search beyond what feels familiar and venture into the unknown. This is a place that nurtures community learning and invites families to commit deeply, not only to their children’s growth but to their own.
Yes, at the beginning the amount of information can feel overwhelming. But Mapaches soon discover that they are not alone. They find tools, perspective, and companionship in others with more experience. They realize their doubts and fears are shared, and that the journey feels lighter when it is lived in community.
One of the most enriching experiences has come from a core principle: guides do not answer questions. Depending on the studio, this looks different, but most of the time, when parents come with questions, we respond with more questions. We encourage Mapaches to reflect, to search within themselves, and to trust their own wisdom. At first this can be difficult —even frustrating— but once it becomes familiar, it turns into an invaluable practice. A phrase we repeat often is: “No one knows your child better than you.”
Our support for families is not just about what we share, but about the commitment they bring. It is a two-way relationship, built with honesty, courage, and trust.
At our most recent Family Day, a celebration full of joy, laughter, and unity, many Mapaches expressed their gratitude. What touched us most was that, after months of adaptation and discovery, families shared appreciation not only for their children’s journeys but also for their own. They spoke of continuing to learn, to question, and to expand their horizons alongside their Pumas.
Being part of Tinkuy means listening and committing, guiding and allowing yourself to be guided, making mistakes and finding the path again. It means growing as a parent while your child grows as a learner.
And you: are you ready to step into a space where the journey belongs not only to your child, but also to you?